It’s five years this week since I had to tell my children that their father had died suddenly Five years since I had to tell my sister-in-law that her brother had died suddenly Five years since I had to tell my mother-in-law that her son had died suddenly Five years since I had to tell my husband’s colleagues and friends that he had died suddenly He was the fittest and healthiest person I knew at the time: it was a total shock to everyone We all had to learn to navigate a new